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Vagina
The passage that connects the outside of the vulva (female genitals) up the womb/uterus.
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Vasectomy
A permanent method of contraception for people with a penis. It involves a small operation that cuts and seals the tubes that carry sperm.
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Vibrator
A sex toy that uses vibration to create pleasurable feelings on or inside the body. Some people use it to help reach orgasm. Vibrators can be used by anyone, on different parts of the body - not just people with a vulva.
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Virgin
Someone who has never had any type of sexual contact. This can also be a harmful term, and is now considered outdated. People should have sexual contact when they are ready, comfortable and consenting.
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Vulva
The name for the outer parts of the genitals that you can see, like the labia, clitoris, and the opening to the vagina. People often say 'vagina' when they really mean vulva.
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Are you ready to have sex?
It can be difficult to decide whether it's the right time for you to have sex. You should know that whatever anyone else might say, the decision to have sex for the first time or anytime is YOURS. It might feel ok to do it or it might not feel ok. You need to trust your instincts and do what is right for you.
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Be clear on consent
It is important that sex is always consensual. This means being conscious enough and safe/comfortable enough to say yes to any type of sexual contact, whether that's talking about sex, touching, or taking part in sexual acts. It's about both parties feeling actively excited and comfortable in a sexual situation. Remember you can change your mind at any point, whether that means saying "no" or stopping any kind of activity.
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Contraception choices
If you are thinking about having sex and you don‘t want to become pregnant then you need to use a method of contraception. Most methods of contraception will not protect you from sexually transmitted infections so whatever method you choose you also need to think about protection (avoiding getting a sexually transmitted infection). For this you'll need to use condoms.
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